“Do not make who or what you want fit the narrative”, I say to each client after each session, before providing a reading and spiritual message.

 I provide a safe space and judgment free zone, a space where I support the choices you make and face the consequences, good or bad, right beside you. Always giving you the freedom to express, shed, and find peace.

However, spiritual guidance is not so kind. While I understand human nature and the limitations of the mind, the spirit realm is not so “gentle”. It is hard to remember that any spiritual messages are not catering to your emotions. Mentally you must remember spirit is what you need to hear, while the safe space we create is what you want and need.

Never will I ever tell you what you want to hear in an unhealthy sense, meaning I will say things like “I understand” and “your reaction is normal” etc. Studying human behavior is my specialty, why we think, act, feel the way we do. So, when I say I understand, it’s genuinely because I do, on a fundamental level.

Sessions are not meant to only give you tough love, it’s a space for you to make mistakes and talk them through, for you to express ideas without fear, and for you to feel safe in every emotion. A space you get to call your own and never have to worry about it being used against you or being looked at crazy. A Safe Space.

The spiritual message that follows is direct advice from beyond me, beyond the person who understands human nature. The spiritual realm knows a version of you that precedes our understanding. Seeing the deepest desires of the reality you crave most, giving you guidance to reach that version of you.

So, I say, listen with your spirit, not the limitations of your mind. Leave your emotions in the safe space. Take your reading for what it is, careful not to twist into what you want.

-Only Human

See you in the safe space.